May 27th, 2009 at 2:19 pm
"Your daughter loves you and needs you and you are good at raising her—don’t ever let anyone tell you you’re of secondary importance, because you’re not."
I agree with you. My problem is the numbers of way that her mom, the new husband, and society send her the opposite message, including the court psychologist who encouraged her to call the new husband "dad".
It can be pretty depressing.
It is simply amazing to the author of this blog how it is completely acceptable for people to get upset at a mother who does not want another woman taking over her role (even part time) as a child's mother. Yet there are literally hundreds of websites that promote the "bonus" mom and say that women should just get over it. So why the upset feelings when your child has a "bonus" dad?
In the words of one of your fellow cultists - goose meet gander.....