March 30, 2009

Legally Kidnapped......

Have you committed the crime of giving birth to a male who would eventually grow up to father a child? If so, I wanted to bring your attention to this particular blog post from Glens Cult.

Well LK, the particular grandmother of which I am speaking wants to steal the child away from his or her mother and this infant is only 10 weeks old. This is barely enough time for the child to be bonding with the mother. There is also no mention of whether the mother is breastfeeding the infant. Here is what La Leche League has to say about breastfeeding:

A mother and her baby should breastfeed for as long as they wish to breastfeed. The American Academy of Pediatrics currently (2005) recommends: "Pediatricians and parents should be aware that exclusive breastfeeding is sufficient to support optimal growth and development for approximately the first 6 months of life and provides continuing protection against diarrhea and respiratory tract infection. Breastfeeding should be continued for at least the first year of life and beyond for as long as mutually desired by mother and child." * As solids are introduced, usually around the middle of the first year, your baby will shift his primary source of nutrition from your milk to other foods.

All the benefits of human milk—including nutritional and health—continue for as long as your baby receives your milk. In fact, as your baby takes less human milk, these advantages are condensed into what milk is produced. Many of the health benefits of human milk are dose related, that is, the longer the baby receives human milk, the greater are the benefits.

They also have this to say about breastfeeding and visits away:

Breastfeeding is an important parenting and health choice for mothers and babies. But when parents separate or divorce, conflicts may arise between the mother's desire to continue breastfeeding and the father's plans for visitation. However, breastfeeding can be protected in family law cases without sacrificing the father's bond with his children. Babies need the love of both their parents, and it should be unnecessary for the courts to pick one relationship over the other, when both are so important.

So as you can see LK, forcing long periods of visitation/parenting time on a brand new baby who could possibly be breastfeeding is not a good idea. Yes the father should be allowed to bond with this child as (providing he is NOT ABUSIVE), but for this paternal grandmother to suggest she wants full custody of this child (in other words she wants to remove the child from his or her mother) is NOT right!!!!

I guess your blog - Legally Kidnapped - is not a misnomer after all, you truly do want to help people legally kidnap children.


Rj said...

They don't give a crap about breastfeeding or anything else that is proven good for children. They prefer the experimentation of it all.

LK said...

Breastfeeding? Is that the best excuse you can come up with to deny a paying father visits with his child?

Tell her to get a breast pump and fill a few bottles for the visit.


Glenn's Cult? said...

LK again you must be angry for some reason. I know there are women out there who are either selfish and choose not to breastfeed their children, and occasionally there are women who for whatever reason cannot do so. You are either one of the vain women who chose not to do so, or you are one of the angry ones who could not do so.

Nursing is not just about giving the baby nutrition. It is about the mother bonding with the child. And in the case of this kidnapping PATERNAL grandmother, we are only hearing her version of the events. We are not hearing the birth mother's version, we are not hearing dad's version, we are not hearing the maternal relatives' versions.

So again we hear one side of a minimum of a three sided story.

Go smoke some more of your gooooooooooooooooooooddddddddddd drugs LK and leave the true victim advocacy to the professionals. Victims and survivors need help, not your further victimization.

Glenn's Cult? said...

Oh and thanks RJ again for simplifying it down so easily. Children in todays' society are an experiment to these people.

Oh and LK enjoy, I will be keeping you busy over the next few days. I have probably a minimum of 30 posts already started highlighting the stupidity of the mens rights groups, plus more info then I could ever use in 100 years with all the recent news stories out there. How about the mom whose two precious boys were just killed by psycho DAD? How about the whole family who was wiped out down in Miami (opps better make that two families, little more than a week after the first one - another one happened). How about the police officer who has lost his eye due to a psycho MAN? How about the girlfriend and the girlfriends son who were also killed? This man's ex-wife has on two occassions asked for RO's against him (she needn't worry now, he will never harrass or abuse her again - of course the young man killed by this psycho MAN, will never have the chance to himself be a father). How about those? How about Bruce Pardo? How about Darren Mack? How about psyco MAN who didn't kill any children (they were grown) but jeopardized many by blowing up the building that he was to turn over to his ex-wife - saying she would only have rubble?

I could go on and on. Sadly I will ALWAYS have material for PSYCHO MEN!!! State kidpnappings of children are a totally separate ball game, however. Yes they are heinous, yes in some cases they are wrong. But we are discussing apples and oranges here LK.

So go back home, tuck that tail between your legs (better yet close 'em your breath smells bad). Read and absorb what is being said. I have said this many times before (and not just to you). There will come a time when I can go public safely, and I will make sure you know who I am when I do go public. You will see I understand your POV of state kidnapping children, and I know all too well about men trying to remove moms forever. Both are bad, but they are apples and oranges, LK, apples and oranges.

They both hurt. Betrayal by someone who once professed love however is a knife wound that rarely heals, especially when that someone was also extremely abusive.

Rj said...

Breastfeeding is an EXCUSE now? Geez.