Showing posts with label domestic violence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label domestic violence. Show all posts

June 18, 2010

A little movie clip for your viewing (dis) pleasure....



This is a clip of a movie based on the true story of Tracy Thurman. In this clip you see a MAN who steals his son from the mother (Tracy) and terrorizes the child. This is after he has beaten her numerous times - including at least once when she was pregnant by kicking her in the stomach. Go to youtube.com to see the final result of his beatings, stalking, and reign of terror.

And this was back in the early 80's - FReaks were running rampant even back then.

November 12, 2009

MRA's would not be angry if only moms would "share parenting?"

I was sent this link by a protective mother. I find it quite interesting because 99.9% of the men and women in the FR movement say if only she (meaning the bio-mom) would share custody, I owuld not be angry. Well this one blows that hypothesis right out of the water ladies and gents. Please be sure to read the highlighted portions.

Oh and I should add that more people need to start paying attention to warning signs. And rather than just think oh maybe I should do something, DO IT!!!! The next life you save may be mine or someone you love and care about. Don't just sit on your hands and say - oh I don;t think that is a good idea. SAY SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!!




Oregon woman killed by husband filed for divorce

PORTLAND, Ore. — An Oregon woman had filed for divorce just a week before her estranged husband opened fire at the suburban Portland office park where she worked, fatally shooting her and injuring two of her co-workers before killing himself.

Teresa Beiser, 36, was asking for joint custody of her two children with Robert Beiser, 39, in what appeared from court documents to be an amicable dissolution of their marriage.

But a martial arts instructor who knew the Gladstone couple well said Robert Beiser bought firearms recently and wanted to go to a shooting range to practice.

"He never had guns, and all of he sudden he buys guns," said Al Dorsey, who has taught the couple's 14-year-old daughter tae kwan do for several years.

Dorsey said many parents and students at the TaeKwanDo 2 martial arts training hall, based in suburban Milwaukie, Ore., are considered friends. He knew the Beisers well and watched the childhood sweethearts struggle with their marriage before their divorce petition was filed last week in Clackamas County Circuit Court.

"Rob came in all the time and talked to me, and Teresa would talk to me or my wife," Dorsey said.

But when Robert Beiser recently showed an interest in guns and wanted to go to a shooting range, Dorsey — an Army veteran — was wary.

"I told my wife, 'I don't feel comfortable going shooting with anybody that's going through a divorce,'" he said.


Wednesday evening, the Tualatin Police Department released more details about the shooting at the medical lab where Teresa Beiser worked. Police said Robert Beiser got out of his vehicle shortly before noon Tuesday and began firing into the front windows of the Legacy MetroLab. He was armed with a rifle, a shotgun and a handgun.

He fired at least three rounds into the building from the parking lot. One of those rounds struck Teresa Beiser as she was standing near the front lobby.

Robert Beiser yelled at a man in the lobby to get out of the building as he continued to fire multiple shots, police said.

One of Teresa Beiser's co-workers — 20-year-old Brittney Nichole Lore of Vancouver, Wash. — was near the front doors and was injured by flying glass and bullet fragments. She ran out of the building and flagged down help at a nearby Subway sandwich shop, police said.

Lore was treated at a Portland hospital and released.

Another Legacy employee, 63-year-old Tony Ochoa of Tigard, was sitting at his desk when he was struck in the hand and chest with one of the first rounds fired into the building, police said.

He started running out of the building but was confronted by Robert Beiser and shot in the leg. He then crawled to a neighboring business, where an employee administered first aid until officers arrived.

Police said Ochoa was recovering at a Portland hospital; an update on his condition was not available Wednesday evening.

Investigators found Teresa Beiser's body near the lobby. She had been shot multiple with an assault rifle and shotgun.

Robert Beiser's body was found in a bathroom at the back of the lab. He died from a self-inflicted shotgun wound, police said.

Other than some moodiness and appearing distracted, Robert Beiser showed no signs that he was capable of such violence, Dorsey said.

Dorsey said he and Robert Beiser had discussed some recent shootings in the news, sharing their concerns. "He even said, 'There's nothing that bad that would make you want you to do something like that,'" Dorsey said.

Beiser and his wife were both working two jobs, and were devoted to their daughter and 11-year-old son, said Dorsey and other family friends.

A neighbor on a side street said she and her husband frequently walked past the couple's house and noticed how neat and tidy it was.

"The house was always well-kept, and they always decorated at Christmas," said Vicki Obrist, who added that she and her husband never got to know the family.

Dorsey said Teresa Beiser was working to become a competitive body builder, and she pushed her daughter to be competitive in tae kwan do.

He said Robert Beiser had worked on fundraisers for trips to tae kwan do tournaments and had accompanied his daughter. The couple appeared to be friendly when they attended tae kwan do practice sessions.

"He really loved his kids, and he really loved her too," Dorsey said. "This man worked hard, and I think his world just started crumbling."

Copyright © 2009 The Associated Press. All rights reserved.

More links on this story:

Victim Was Worried About Violence, Family Says

November 7, 2009

A loving father?






I always believed that being "allowed" supervised visits is an abomination and amounts to a consolation prize, when prior to talk of a divorce, there was no concern about a non-custodial's ability to care for his child.
My kid was taken from me in New York. the judge tried that shit on me. That is to offer me a consolation prize. I declined, because I knew I would be no more than an out-of-state visitor and would have to fight each time to see the kid which up to that point, they refused to allow me to do. I would essentially be a baby sitter for the bitch, which I wasn't about to do, either. I would constantly be paying sharks to go to the court to ask for a little time with the kid. Not for me. I wasn't about to lose another dime in time or "shark" fees to get me something that should have been mine to begin with - a right to my kid.
It was heartwrenching to me - I felt like offing myself. But I eventually got over it. I haven't seen the kid since he was 2 1/2 y/o. Now he's almost 18. I understand he was recently trying to contact me, but I know for a fact it was only for more money. He, or I should say she gets $380.00/week from me. That's the extent of my involvement. If he wanted my involvement, he would have called me a long time ago and that didn't happen.


I ask you - are these the words of a loving father? Well apparently EFRMHP or ehosppharm@cxaxtxr.nxt seems to think so.

September 23, 2009

Petunia has a new project in the works






Well it has come to my attention that a FR blogger has his panties in a wad because he is no longer on top of the domestic violence categroy at the rival blogsite. It appears that a protective mother's blog has held that spot for some time now. he has accused this protective mother of cheating, he has attacked her on his blog, he has twisted her posts around to suit his purpose, all to gain that ever elite top spot.

Only problem is people are seeing that maybe just maybe the protective moms out here on the 'Net are telling the truth. And they are steering away from his blog to hers. And that has his panties in a knot.

Now you may ask, to what level does he now resort, Petunia? Well he has stolen images from this protective mother's blog, he has also violated copyright protection laws by slightly changing a protective mother's organization's name and using that to post abusive motehr stories. And he does not only post abusive moms stories, he posts graphic gory details as well. Not content to just continue his spews on his site he must now resort to illegal tactics (theft of images as well as copyright infringement).

So what is Petunia's latest project, you might ask? Well Petunia is never one to back down so I have decided it is time for good ol' Markie Poo to be featured exposed right here. So Markie Poo I know you will watch me soon. I will watch you watching me sucker. And I will not be nice either. I am angry that abusive men like you get away with the things you do, so I write about it. I show you to the world. So get ready Markie Poo, GAMES ON!!!!!

September 20, 2009

Tila Tequila's DV Charges Against NFL's Merriman Dropped, Tequila Plans Civil Suit

http://glennsacks.com/blog/?p=4222

The bruises are pictured above. They could have been made by Merriman and, frankly, they could be anything. They could be makeup, bruises from something else, bruises because he grabbed her to prevent her driving drunk, or a multitude of other things. Some women bruise very easily--I've no idea if Tequila is one of them.


Okay let's go through these one at a time.

They could be makeup MAKEUP?!?!?!? Like she has the time to do something like this and to even make sure that the bruises "match" as time goes on?, bruises from something else WHAT ELSE?!?!?!?!?, bruises because he grabbed her He should not have "GRABBED HER" PERIOD, he could have alerted law enforcement to prevent her driving drunk, or a multitude of other things WHAT OTHER THINGS?!?!??!?!?!?!. Some women bruise very easily--I've no idea if Tequila is one of them Who cares if she bruises easily or normally or if it takes a herd of elephants trampling her to make her bruise - the point is he touched her inappropriately, she bruised as a result. Whether she bruised or not is irrelevant, he TOUCHED HER INAPPROPRIATELY!!!! He should be charged!!!!.

Now let's go back to the opening sentence in this little diatribe:

They could have been made by Merriman and, frankly, they could be anything.The real question "BS" GS is this:

Should this alleged perpetrator be allowed to put his hands on another person because of his alleged reason? There is ABSOLUTELY no reason anyone should touch anyone else for any reason. PERIOD!!!! Put that in your woman hating pipe and smoke it!!!!!


Now I wonder what his cultists have to say about this issue?



August 30, 2009

It's not what you know???????






ChrisPCD Says:

August 27th, 2009 at 4:18 pm
"Just because someone isn't convicted of something doesn't mean they're not guilty."

True. But it's not what you know, it's what you can prove. :)


This is PRECISELY how battering men get away with abuse!!!!! This is what must be stopped!!!!!

Oh and welcome to Petunia's lair ChrisPCD. I see this is your first time here (probably not your last). Oh and one side note to my favorite (gag puke cough) fr - have you found what you are looking for yet? You have been to my site more than everyone else combined nearly over the last week. If you are looking for something and cannot find it why not just email me you boobhead. Won't say your name but you know who I am talking about :-)

She is back!!!!






Ahh a voice of reason among the many quaks.

jeana Says:

August 27th, 2009 at 4:04 pm
There may not be enough evidence of domestic violence, but enough that the judge would rather be safe than sorry. Just because someone isn't convicted of something doesn't mean they're not guilty.


This is what PROTECTIVE MOTHERS have been saying all along. DV does hot happen in the open as shown in this video:



Domestic violence happens in secret - behind closed doors. Who sees it? Nobody except the victim and the perpetrator. Maybe the chidlren who generally are either too young to testify (unless the abuse escalates to murder) or too aligned with the abuser after years of being told their mother is stupid. Just search for Susan Still. Her 13 year old son was forced to video tape his father beating his mother. This is about the only time you will hear of abuse being corroborated. Any other time it is NEARLY ALWAYS a he said she said situation.

So jeana it is a welcome sight for sore eyes to see you back and posting again. Welcome back to the insanity!

August 16, 2009

NE on the Food Network






NE Says:

July 29th, 2009 at 2:06 pm
Most men I know don't even own a tv? They are either into computers, photography, cars, guns, sports, etc? Most of the men I've met are usually much more active than any women I've meet that watch tons of tv including cooking shows like foodnetwork.?????


Only one comment here - men are INTO guns? yep we can sure see that with all of the innocent women, children and yes even other men being killed by MEN with GUNS.

Hmmm where do their reports come from?






Knock Knock Says:

August 12th, 2009 at 4:17 pm
Doug asks:

"Can you please provide the link to this, it will be good ammo for future reference."

Here you go:

Report:
A Culture of False Allegations: How VAWA Harms Families and Children

Press Release:
One Million False Allegations of Domestic Violence Each Year, Report Finds

The organization that put these out is called "Respecting Accuracy In Domestic Abuse Reporting" (RADAR).

If I were you, I would be careful to avoid making any public assertions of fact based on the above report, simply because the source -- RADAR in this case -- is an advocacy organization and therefore by definition is biased. (You wouldn't trust the Tobacco Institute's reports about the safety of tobacco, would you?)

So if you do quote RADAR's report, you should be careful to describe it as "indicative" or "suggestive", rather than "authoritative" or "dispositive".


RADAR is biased towards men, because men have a more powerful voice. One simply need to look at our government and businesses to see that. And gentle readers don't you just LOVE how Knock Kncok gets around the fact that this group is for men?

Comments please! (oh and those from mysogynistic men will be deleted without question or comment, unless they are just so dam good and they create another post). Oh but that would be nearly all of them lol.....

August 8, 2009

Anger Issues?

Okay here is the comment from one of our favorite stalkers (ATILLA)....

I recall my very foolish wife inviting me out to Polo for Heart in Richmond Hill where her boyfriend was one of the polo players. At one point he actually came up to me and put his arm around me and said “Attila. How are you doing?” At that moment in time It took every ounce of my martial arts discipline training to refrain from violent behaviour, and I walked away. Lucky for him and more importantly lucky for me and the children as I would be useless to them in jail.


Now lets go through this a little at a time. First he calls his ex-wife "foolish". Is it any wonder she wanted to leave him? If he speaks of her this way in a public forum where anyone can see it, how did he speak to her at home in private (and in front of the children I might add)?

Next he says she invited him to a polo match in which her boyfriend was a competitor. Hmmm maybe she wanted to have some semblance of sanity for the children? Maybe she wanted to "get along"? Maybe even see the children to whom she gave birth? Nah.... That couldn't be the case because Atilla is ALWAYS right.

Then the boyfriend came up to Atilla and put his arm around him and said "How are you doing?" Hmmmmm what is wrong with that statement? My family absolutely hates what my ex has done to me and our children but they are still civil in public. Maybe ex-wife's boyfriend was "trying" to be civil? Nah.... Again because Atilla is ALWAYS right.

Then we have "At that moment in time It took every ounce of my martial arts discipline training to refrain from violent behaviour, and I walked away." Ohhhhhh, so we should be proud that Atilla walked away from a man asking him how he was doing? That makes a lot of sense....

Then we have this line, "Lucky for him and more importantly lucky for me and the children as I would be useless to them in jail." Ummmmmm okay now we should be impressed because you have martial arts training? That reminds me of the 1st and 2nd graders my kids grew up with - leave me alone or I will karate chop you. I know karate. {rolls eyes} Seriously Atilla - is it any wonder your wife left you? So sad that YOU decided children don't need mom, they only need dad especially in your case, because again....








ATILLA IS ALWAYS RIGHT!!!!!!




July 30, 2009

We might get the makings for an omelette very soon

It seems that "certain" mens rights bloggers have egg on their face. Not once but twice in as many days. First as mentioned on this awesome blog "Rights For Mothers" HERE, this MRA/FR blogger also had posted (quite prematurely in fact) that the wife of boxer Arturro Gatti had been charged with his murder. Now it seems to me, that maybe just maybe, this "certain" MRA/FR blogger should really wait before spouting off...... Or he could continue typing and give us the onions, mushrooms, cheese, tomatoes, and peppers for some really decent omelettes. Wonder which he will choose?

I sure would much rather see the veggies, eggs than the pants down as suggested above :-) That is a scary thought......




July 20, 2009

Women mean nothing in Ohio

Ohio Bill Would Include Father's Right's in Abortion Decision-Making Process

An Ohio lawmaker has re-introduced legislation that would include a father's rights in the abortion decision-making process. Under Roe v. Wade, fathers are left out of the equation when a woman considers whether or not to have an abortion that would end the life of their child.


I really have no comments on this. This would be a huge blow to victims rights, womens rights and would make some FR/MRA types very happy as evidenced by the pure joy in the original article. Imagine if you can the horror of the victim of incest or rape when she attempts to secure an abortion for whatever reason, and she is told, I am sorry we must have the alleged father appear and give his "permission"?




Quentin and guns

This is how Quentie "controls" people:

In the Marines we had a jerk tailgaiting me pretty bad while driving my hummer. I finally got pissed and told the gunner to rotate the TOW system on him. You could see strait through the dummy round showing it is empty and it takes 60yds for it to even arm if you did fire but the fucker almost wrecked hammeing his brakes so hard to finally back off! I miss heavy guns and explosives! They make people MUCH more polite! LOL


Need I say more? Oh one thing only..... Did he control his home in this fasion?




I am now bored with Quentie

It is interesting that she spent all that time "researching" me and never found anything of interest that she could attack. I did ask her why she was taking so long and pointed out she has a serious problem with claiming many yhings by men are control items yet she refused a reasonable post with independent research and attacked me for questioning why she didn't allow it therefore using the exact same kinds of control she complains about all over her blog.


I found many interesting things about you Quentie. I simply am bored with you now since you are like so many of the other MRA's. You were "falsely" (cough gag snort puke) accused of abuse in one form or another, you have spent your life making sure that this is removed from your record, and when it was not you simply joined up with other "allegedly" falsely accused men who are ordered to pay support. You do everything in your power to take children away from a perfectly fit mother and when you cannot, you make her unfit with your schemes and court actions. I have seen your dockets (yes plural, there was more than one). I feel for your ex-wife, and more importantly I feel for your kids. What will your daughter do when her friends come to her and say, hey I saw you dressed up as Batgirl? But "loving" fathers like you don't think that far ahead.

So talk about me all you want Quentie...It hurts me NONE. I lived with someone just like YOU. I was married to someone just like YOU. I have not visited SYG or any of those men's websites in weeks. Why do you come visit me every day? I should also ask Attila that question as well. What is it that I do that "bothers" you so much?

I won't hold my breath waiting for that little tidbit....




June 28, 2009

Sentencing discounts for women?

There are several studies that have found that, when men and women with equal criminal histories are charged with the same crime, men get the more severe sentence. One such study found that sex played the greatest role in sentencing disparities - even greater than race. That's the female sentencing discount.


This the latest from the MRA's... So Petunia has done her own research on this issue. She came up with some rather interesting tidbits to share.

http://fcx.sagepub.com/cgi/content/abstract/4/2/170

Gendered Justice
Domestic Homicide and the Death Penalty
Jill Theresa Messing
School of Social Work, Arizona State University, Phoenix, Jill.Messing@asu.edu

John W. Heeren

Department of Sociology, California State University, San Bernardino, jheeren@csusb.edu

This research examines a newspaper sample of men and women who killed multiple people in a single domestic altercation during the years 1993 to 2002. As all these perpetrators of multiple domestic homicide are eligible to be capitally tried, differences in capital sentencing are examined using bivariate statistics and descriptive, case-oriented analyses. Women who kill their children using a knife or firearm are disproportionately sentenced to death, whereas men who kill in the context of a separation are granted leniency in regard to the death penalty. The interaction between the gender of the offender and the crime committed is discussed.


Or how about this one:

http://www.nola.com/news/t-p/otheropinions/index.ssf?/base/news-0/1179120053203970.xml&coll=1

Going easy on men who kill partners
Monday, May 14, 2007 Tania Tetlow

Everette Simpson married three times, and three times he murdered his wife. Simpson stabbed his first wife 16 times with a butcher knife and then served nine years in prison. He stabbed his second wife with a hatchet, was allowed to plead guilty to manslaughter and served 11 years before being paroled. Last month in Slidell, Simpson beat his third wife and her brother to death and then set the house on fire to conceal the murders. He died in the fire, so at least he won't be released and marry again.

Sheriff Jack Strain asked how a "monster" like this could have been free to kill again. The answer is simple -- the national average sentence for men who kill their female partners is two to six years in prison. Criminal justice systems and juries do not, on average, treat the murder of women by their husbands terribly seriously.

In contrast, women who kill their male partners are sentenced to an average of 15 years, three times as much as male defendants, despite the fact that many of these women killed in self-defense.

Women in abusive relationships find themselves trapped. They know that the system will not, or sometimes cannot, protect them from husbands who promise to track them down and kill them. Ashley Ruffins was stabbed to death last year after the police in both Orleans and Jefferson parishes failed to answer her repeated begging to enforce a protective order. Even when the police respond immediately, as they did in Mandeville last month, they could not protect Adrienne McGee from being shot down in the middle of the street in broad daylight.

But if these women try to save their own lives, fight back and end up killing their batterers, they often face life sentences in prison. Their children are effectively orphaned. Three recent New Orleans trials, all held in the same month, illustrate this fact:...


I also found numerous "men's websites" claiming women receive a sentencing discount versus men. I guess we are back at "he said, she said" again. Sadly the only winner in that scenario in today's world is the one with the money. So I guess that would be the man.....




June 22, 2009

Senator Bayh calling YOU out



Petunia gets very unhappy when she hears of someone ignoring abused mothers and children. She gets really angry when she hears Senators who should be thinking of ALL people, not just the fathers.

Smileys


Senator Bayh, maybe if you did something about all the violent men, you would find less divorce, fewer cingle mothers, and more dads doing the responsible thing.

So, Senator Bayh, my challenge to you is this - start listening to the pleas of the abused women and children. We are out there and we are shouting. YOU ARE IGNORING US!!!! Listen to us for a moment..... The chidlren who will care for you and I tomorrow in our old age are depending on you to do the right thing for abused women and children.....

PS Senator Bayh, where was your Mother's Day message? Oh yeah that's right!!!! You never created one. I guess you are showing YOUR true colors where womena nd mothers are concerned (cough gag puke). I hope the Hoosiers you speak so fondly of decide to send you back home with your tail between your leg. READERS IN INDIANA - DO NOT - I REPEAT - DO NOT RE-ELECT SENATOR BAYH!!!!!




June 21, 2009

Just a thought on corruption

Father;s rights activists claim they are targetted by vindictive ex-wives, they claim the courts are corrupt (they are just not in the way these men say), they claim women are more violent than men. They "CLAIM" a bunch of things. But thanks to a very dear friend of mine, I have come to see the light. Both groups (protective mothers and father's rights activists) claim corruption. When these FR's steal custody away from fit and protective mothers, when they batter and abuse these moms and children, where is the voice for the4se victims? When the ultimate judge sees these men, women, and chidlren, there will be no corruption and no federal funding, and no ability to bribe the judge. Sorry dads (and I use that term loosely), you will eventually face the music. Don't know whether you will like what this judge has to say. I am sure you will be sitting with ol' Slewfoot complaining to him about the corruption of that judge also. Wonder if there are any computers and high speed internet coffee bars so you can create a blog from there?




Woman on woman violence is okay in FR activist's eyes





Father's rights activists say women are more violent than men. It appears that in THIS situation they are correct:
Oh Steve, I dont know how I can saY THAnk you (I wish I had other words. ou are a good man. Worrying over Sean was bad enpough bujt now I hazve my husbancd to worry of. Had an accident in Wisc last Friday spent 4 days there and now he is home in a hospital in La Grange, very serious. I write to Sean every day. I love my adopted son more then my life. If I ever met Gloria, I woul;d wring her neck, well time for bed. Love you Nannette


I guess it is okay for NANNETTE CARLSON to threaten violence against another woman. But she is a father's rights activist, so it stands to reason she would be violent as it has been proven that most FR activists are violent or have some sort of violent history. Why else would their ex-wives be seeking restraining orders against them?

Father's Day is done for another year...

And out of respect for those good dads out there (not the ones whining on various blogs, message boards, and email groups around the world) I can now resume my life's calling. I will now post as many "Bad father" posts as I can. I will go at this with a vengeance only equalled by theirs when they were abusing their wives and chidlren. You see it will take that type of determination to stop these pigs from hurting us more.



May 12, 2009

Judge Judy gets it wrong!!!!



Judge Judy you need to get in touch with the local shelter where you live. Thankfully you are no LONGER responsible for a "real" court. If you were, this video in and of itself would be enough to get you excused from hearing any case with dv or abuse allegations. Judge Judy you REALLY need to get a life!!!!! Oh and Judge Judy you are NOT smart, YOU madam are rather STUPID IN MY OPINION!!!!!!

Ashley Brethen, the young lady shown in this video, if you see this on my site, please use my contact form and get in touch with me. You do not have to tolerate this from her or from your "alleged" ABUSER.



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