Moms killing themselves? Not likely - dads are beating us to the punch...

These are some of the headlines which greeted Parenting Magazine’s new “Mad at Dad” survey which found that 31% of mothers get “little or no help” with childcare and 46% of mothers “get irate with their husbands once a week or more.” The New York Times called the survey “disturbing,” while a Washington Post columnist announced that mothers are “literally killing themselves.”

This was lifted from Glenn Sacks website (http://glennsacks.com/blog/?p=3437) - I will not directly link you will have to work to go to his site. My point over this post and Sacks' misinformation is simply this. One need only look at the recent headlines to see that while women work hard, men are actually killing women (and children, aunts, uncles, grandparents, and basically anyone who gets in their way).

In Florida there has been one murder/suicide carried out by a man every week for the last month. People excuse these murders by blaming the economy or anything so we do not have to truly look at the cause of the problem (angry and controlling men). I have to point out that one of these men (the most recent perp of a murder/suicide) decided to try to take out a police officer (he did not succeed with that task thankfully) as well as his girlfriend, her son, and himself. The news reports state that he was in the midst of a foreclosure. Then we have those same reporters go on to discuss the arsenal this man had in his possession and the lethality and cost of those weapons. One of the weapons in this man's arsenal was a 50 caliber ammo and weapon.

One of the local news shows did a recent story on all of the weapons that Langford had at his disposal and by selling these weapons, any "financial" issues that plagued this man could have been dispatched quickly. According to this local news show, a 50 caliber assault rifle can cost anywhere from 2,000 to 12,000 dollars. This was only one of numerous handguns, rifles, and weaponry at this monster's disposal. To see the weapons available to this man click HERE and watch the video.

You can also learn by going through Orlando Senntinel's website coverage of this case that Langford's ex-wife sought dv injunctions on two separate occasions.

Petunia deduces this was not a man ravaged by guilt over financial issues, she believes this was another man who was not able to control his victims any longer.

And in short order we now have more victims to add to the statistics of dv.

Blogging and blogging

I have been lurking and reading, reading and lurking. I now have a slew of posts ready for you my gentle reader (more in fact than I can finish and publish in a year - and then I will be given new material). As I sit and read some of the unbelievable comments on Sucks' site, I wonder if these men truly believe this. Then I look back at my marriage from hell, and the things my ex-husband said, and I sigh and think - yep they truly believe this. What sort of monster would believe these things? I am not a psychologist or a psychiatrist so I will leave the diagnosis to the professionals. My only job here is to show these MRA/FR types in their true color. Show what disgusting pigs they really are. With that said, prepare to be inundated. These guys (and gals) just do not know how to shut the hell up.

Abuser Database?

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menscollegeactivist.org Says:

March 18th, 2009 at 5:36 pm
There should be a database for all these women that smack, hit men...so we can stay far, far, away from them.

As well, there should be a database of all men who have beaten or abused their wives or children in any way so WE can be protected from the likes of you.....

KISS MY FAT ASS!!!!

I do not think anything else needs to be added here. Oh except for one thing.....

I must add to all of you PAS supporters, to all of you who simply believe a man when he cries and whines the blues about how much his ex-wife lies about his abuse, or even better to those men who say you did not abuse us when you most assuredly did, to all of you and to those who do not care what happens to abused women and the children they are trying to protect, to all of you men who use this to further degrade and paralyze a woman so she will never stand up to your abuse

YOU CAN KISS MY FAT ASS!!!

LK what koolaid are you drinking?

You know sweetie, I don't necessarily condone that sort of behavior, but I do respect the attention that f4j has brought to the fathers rights/family court issue.

Civil disobedience is a last resort and people like you are the cause by turning men into monsters, simply because you had a bad one. You know the old saying, "one bad apple spoils the whole bunch."

You know - first and foremost - someone who calls me "sweetie" and in the manner of which you did, automatically goes on moderation. You then go on to justify the F4J movement and the superheroes climbing on bridges, buildings and even private residences? You justify the F4J threats to kidnap Tony Blair's son? You justify countless men rebelling against court mandated support for children? You rebel against a woman's right to live free from ALL abuse?

Okay that comment goes here:



BuhBye!!!!!



UPDATE: And why is it that I and the others who have been in my shoes before - are the ones who make these men be the way they are? Why is it okay for you to point your crooked little nag fingers at me for "turning men into freaks" when quite probably they were already freaks? Even Glenn Sacks their fearless leader calls some of them loonies......

JeanB - pay attention please.... Oh I forgot you belong over there you can't....

Wow. The "Mother and Father" added to "Father Only" is still less than the "Mother Only." So, how do they figure it is usually the father who hurts or murders these children?

This study does not account for time spent by each abuser with the child. In mother abuse cases, the mother typically spends more time with the child. In father abuse cases this is not true. If we factor in the time spent by each perpetrator with the child and accounted for that in these figures, you would see the father abuse percentages skyrocket. Just simple math, not rocket science... Do you understand now?

Guess not you will still spout the tired old statistics, and all the supposed bad stories on men, the dead broke stories, the lies, the propaganda that MEN have created. So go back to your little commune.

I am a FEMINIST and I am DAMN proud to say it!!!!

Why is it that Geraldo the only one to possibly get this?

Why is it that Geraldo is the only one who gets this? Why is it that Geraldo the only reporter in this world wide circus that see the true picture? Watch and wait until you hit about 1:45 left in the video to see what I mean....

Eleanor Roosevelt

A woman is like a tea bag. You never know how strong she is until she gets into hot water.
Eleanor Roosevelt

And she is hip too :-)

Good dads

In going back through my blog I realize many might come to believe that I hate men. This could not be further from the truth. I love all "good" people. My brother, while not a father, is a great role model to my children. he has expanded their horizons and introduced them to things they might not have ever done with just myself and their bio-dad. In the daycare (which I might add is run by a man) they attend, they have him as a role model as well as other men who work there. Men are awesome if they think of the children. Women are awesome if they think of the children.

But this is where my issue comes to play. It is those men and those women who do NOT think of the children. How plain this is when you read the many websites and blogs available out there saying men are bad, women are bad and each site has its own little (or big) following. I am simply saying that people who use junk science to further abuse someone (and the statistics say women are largely the victims of domestic abuse, men are largely the perps of sexual abuse), we must stop pointing fingers and start coming up with tools to better see abuse. Get rid of junk science, call it what it is.