March 3, 2011

Recall Kurt Damrow?

It appears that some severely misguided folks are trying to "recall" Kurt Damrow in Michigan. Petunia must only feel sorry for these poor poor folks.

You ask if we have read the articles? DUH! What a question to ask. Now Petunia will ask one of you Mr. S. Did you know that newspaper reporters are only as good as their notes and their memories? Do you believe EVERYTHING you read in the papers? Really?

Now that is sad. National Enquirer is a "newspaper" so I am to assume this means you think everything stated in that "periodical" is nothing but the truth? Hmmm did not think so.

Now for Petunia's response to you Mr. S. We will NOT SHUT UP, GIVE UP, or GO AWAY!

EVER!

Petunia questions why you are becoming involved in this case. Who do you know? Are you trying to run for office yourself? Nothing like a knock down drag out mud sling-fest to keep the good ol' boys blood boiling now is there? And if this judge has nothing to hide, then he would not notice the exposure he gets from small, yet vocal grass roots groups - now would he? Or maybe just maybe Judge Knoblock has something to hide? Now that would be just amazing wouldn't it - a family court professional with secrets? Gee golly wiz, now that there don;t happen every day ya'll now do it?

Whatever.....

January 26, 2011

huffington Post engages in censorship and hatred of women yet again

Warshack recently published a false article on PA/PAS/PAD/HAP/MMS and the protective parents movement tried to comment to show a balance and give information from the viewpoint of the abused mother and child. Sadly Warshack and/or Huff Post felt these comments did not need to be published.

We now have another writer who is engaging in the same censorship. On Huff Post we have "Parental Alienation: It's About More Than "A Uterus, Divorce Papers and Bruises" by Cathy Meyer. Another "expert" as you can see by her bio:

Cathy Meyer is a Certified Divorce Coach, Marriage Educator and Legal Investigator. She works with people who expected to be married forever but are now facing divorce. Through her writing and individual coaching, Cathy provides clients with strategies and resources that empower them and equip
them with the skills needed to grow through a time of adversity.

Cathy is the Guide to Divorce Support@About.com, a resource writer for First Wives World and the co-founder of Divorced Women Online. An online magazine written by divorced women, for divorced women.


Certified Divorce Coach? What the hell is that? Oh I know - someone else to make money off the heartache people invariably suffer when going through a divorce. And someone else who OBVIOUSLY has NO CLUE what abuse in a marriage is about. Have you ever sat and watched your parents or your child or even yourself get shot at? How about stabbed Cathy? Or wait here is even one better. How about having your abuser kill himself and have that forever weighing on your conscious? Or read the hundreds of stories daily where a FATHER who is supposed to LOVE his children, supposed to honor and protect and CHERISH his wife, belittles and beats them daily? No? Didn't think so. Then you need to shut your trap about abuse in a marriage and the aftermath of a divorce afterward. What type of domestic violence and abuse training have you had? Didn't think so.

Now what has spurred Petunia into this rant. A reader took a screenshot of a post she made as well as a post made in response to a well known protective parent blogger. It seems Ms Meyers feels that a parents right to have their child trumps a mother's (and many times child's) right to be free from abuse. Yep there you have it. Women are crap in Cathy's mind. Don't believe me just look below for the actual text and a screenshot of the comment:

I am more interested in protecting a child from the harm parental alienation does than protecting a few women who have suffered abuse.




So there you have it folks. We are finally getting to the bottom of this. The FReaks and FRags could give two shits less about abused women. Just make sure those daddies (all of them even the nasties) are allowed to continue to control and manipulate the children.

January 19, 2011

More Misogyny online - Mel Gibson case

There is finally going to be some action on the Grigorieva/Gibson case soon. It appears that quite possibly Gibson will be arrested for the assault on Grigorieva. Read more about it here or under the commentary. Now you may ask - Petunia - (yep dats my name) why is this misogyny? This is NOT! What is blatant hatred of females is in the comments below the article. Wow women are less than children? Really?? How do you think children are brought into this world. You can have your little wigglies all you want but without the vessel to carry said child, you have nothing. You cease to exist. And we are much closer to not needing the wigglies than we are to not needing the vessel. One need only look at the internet and search for sperm banks to see evidence of this. Sperm Banks - legal, surrogate mothers - not so much so.

Anyone on to the hatred:

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01/19/2011 12:53 AM


This is a She said/he said case and there were no witnesses. All we have is some female's accusation and as we all know, a female's word is worthless like a child's. And remember that the burden of proof is on the prosecution. Mel doesn't have to do anything or prove he's innocent. His lawyer doesn't even have to put on the defence because it's the prosecutor's job to prove the allegations and since all we have in this case is some female's claim then there is no case.

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01/19/2011 12:43 AM

P.S. and let's remember all of those "r@pe" cases where the female seemed so convincing but was shown to be a complete liar. 95% of r@pe cases are false.
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01/19/2011 12:41 AM

This is a She said/he said case and there were no witnesses. All we have is some female's accusation and as we all know, a female's word is worthless like a child's. And remember that the burden of proof is on the prosecution. Mel doesn't have to do anything or prove he's innocent. His lawyer doesn't even have to put on the defence because it's the prosecutor's job to prove the allegations and since all we have in this case is some female's claim then there is no case.



Well all we can say is lets hope Gibson does not put on a defense. Then maybe we will have one less female hating, racist, angry man off the streets. Now if we could only find this Whammer and warn the women in his life.


January 11, 2011

Glenn Sacks again Attacks Protective Mothers and their supporters

Jennifer Collins is such a brave young woman and by all of her accounts as well as those of her brother and mother, she has lived a rather full life in her short 2 decades here. Yet she is constantly faced with attacks and falsehoods being spread about her. Does Sacks ever publish the fact that she DID attempt contact with her father as an adult woman who did not have to fear his alleged abuse? Did Sacks ever post about her father's response to her during said contact? NO SACKS DID NOT!

He did not do this because it does not fit into his neat little package of all those mean mommies out there stealing children from their fathers. (As if children were indeed 'property' and as such could be 'stolen').

This is just the tip of the iceberg on Sacks. Most of my readers know that Sacks disabled comments long ago on his blog. Thankfully there is no shortage of FReaks on the 'Net hating and abusing women.

Sacks attacks not only Holly Collins and Jennifer Collins, he goes on to attack TC. He does this by posting what should be her information and her child's information through his newsletter and blog. He gives what is presumably a minor child's name and location to his readers, many of whom have admitted themselves on his blog in the comment section to having been accused of sexual attacks on children. Smooth move exlax. Let's just possibly endanger even more children.

He is not even finished there. He attacks BN. He does this inferring that BN must have zero brain cells and is completely unable to make a rational decision on his own based on information he can accumulate on his own. I guess BN must be another one of those manginas that his readers spoke of so frequently.

Surprisingly he left BAZ alone. One must wonder why that is.

He also attacks AR in the same way he goes after BN. Again a lawyer who is highly respected in his field enough so that he can take on a hugely complicated case pro-bono and still maintain his other client load and get a good result for Holly Collins. Oh and lets not forget the mainstream reporters who followed the Collins case and actively reported on it as well. They must have been hypnotized by Holly or Jennifer or both. YEAH! That is it!!! Jennifer and holly are master hypnotists and were able to place ALL of these people under their spell and make them ALL believe EVERY word uttered by them. Yeah there we go!

He goes on to attack several other presenters at the BMCC which will go unnamed as it is simply more drivel and unnecessary to show his absolute hatred of any woman/mother claiming to be a protective mother.

In closing let's look at "HIS" conclusion to his huge "attack" journalism:

Fathers and Families is working for a family court system which properly and impartially investigates abuse claims so that abuse victims are protected but unscrupulous litigants are prevented from employing false claims against the innocent.

Fathers and Families has always been concerned about and stood against domestic violence—domestic violence organizations should make it clear that they are concerned about and stand against false accusers.


My Conclusion:

Fathers and Families is working for a family court system which improperly investigates abuse claims so that abuse victims are not protected but unscrupulous litigants are able to employ false claims against the abused.

Fathers and Families has never been concerned about nor stood against domestic violence—domestic violence organizations are the only ones concerned about and standing against false accusers.


May I also add - how quickly we forget about The Family Place and DART? Or the great work Ampersand from "Alas a Blog" did for TFP regarding the cruel and unusual treatment from Sacks? Or what about his little experiment he undertook in order to "prove" that women's shelters (ummmm duh 'WOMEN'S should give you a clue) were engaging in bias and discrimination against men. That these 'women's shelters' should have their federal funding removed due to this discrimination? How about we start removing the funding from ALL of the Fatherhood Initiative programs that are biased against and discriminate against - mothers?

Ahhhh who cares about poor little women. Ain't got the important parts anyway and all they are good for is making babies for us to control and manipulate and so we can stroke our egos. Visit Jennifer's blog and her two part article to see how much Sacks 'strokes' his own ego. Truly eye-opening stuff there.

Nuff said with this. Ladies (and those few true men who support us) we are in for the fight of our lives. Our children are depending on us.

December 25, 2010

Batterers 101: Another look at the power and control wheel

We are nearing the end of another year. There have been some victories for battered moms and their children. There have also been many more moms forced into this strange twilight existence known as non-custodial mommy. We made progress and we have been shoved down. I thought now would be a good time to point out that the holidays are the worst time for the victims, especially those victims of the father's rights crowd and their leaders, followers, and assorted cult gang members.



So we have here a lesson in Battering 101. We turn to the Power and Control wheel and focus on two of the wedges. The first is the using "Using Coercion and Threats" wedge and the second is the "Using Isolation" wedge. You may ask why I am going over this with you gentle reader. Many of you know the tactics, it is simply amazing it is not more apparent to others.

Now to connect the dots for you.

I was sent this image (as far as I know it is unaltered and you can check this information by dates and times if you feel so inclined. We have a well-known woman hater, father's rights advocates stating this:

Removing "friends" who associate with and promote a gender-biased (man-hating) unbalanced (disturbed) mothers rights advocate. The rest of us know that this has nothing to do with gender. CD, your hatred is counter-productive to real reform. But thanks for showing your true colors.


and directly below it, this:

I'll give people until Jan. 1 to disassociate from her before I cut them. This is warning #1.


Okay so first we have an "advocate" for "equality" and presumably peace telling people that they MUST remove 'CD' or they will be removed from her friends list. Now to me (forgive me if I am wrong) sounds a lot like isolation to me. IE: You either do not be friends with this person and only with people I deem to be okay, or I will take you off my friends list. So she is now isolating the people on her friends list from being friends with the mysterious 'CD' or they will no longer be allowed the privilege of being her friend.

Can we say COERCION/THREATS and ISOLATION? I wonder if we were to look back at many of the nasty things being said by this "advocate" whether we would indeed find more similarities to the Power and Control wheel? Does she engage in any other activities like this destined to make the P/C list?

Readers your call. Send me pics like this one below and what wedge of the wheel you think she is violating? I can think of another one just from this posting on Facebook alone, but I have had my fun tonight. YOUR TURN!!!!



November 30, 2010

NewsFlash Quentin0352

Little newsflash for ya Quentin. I saw the post you are discussing on SYG. I am not - REPEAT NOT - the person posting as AbuseVictim. You see I WAS an abused woman, but am no longer abused as I do not ALLOW my abuser that type of control. I am however, an ABUSE SURVIVOR. So get it straight okay? You guys have one track minds. We are anonymums. We are everywhere. And we WILL expose hatred to women any time it is brought to our attention. And that is we as in PLURAL - MORE THAN ONE If I was going to post anywhere I have a name. It is Mz Petunia Pigg. I would use that name and no other. I want all of you to know when I have been somewhere.

Another point you seem to miss is that in your minds it is completely okay for all of you to troll on feminist and protective mother blogs and post our articles on SYG and comment on them when it suits you, but when a woman (god forbid) does the same to you, it is stalking?

Rich, real rich. Get a clue and get a life dude. This is a hobby for me. I have a life. Just look at my posting history compared to yours. That speaks volumes right there.

And if it will make you feel better I will start on your comments and leave poor widdle BQ alone. Plenty of material from your posts to last me several lifetimes dude. Probably be more amusing for my readers also.

Teri Stoddard and self reporting staticstics

Now if this were not extremely rich I would be rolling on the floor. And let me tell you, the sight of Mz Pigg rolling on the floor is one to behold. Or so I have been told. Now on to the gist of this post. It seems (from my informant) that Teri is now claiming that women are MORE abusive than men. Any other time it was "AS" abusive as men. Guess you had to up the ante huh Teri? It did not serve YOUR purpose to say as violent, now women must be MORE violent? And people wonder why I have informants (and you cannot chase all of them away Scary Teri) to INFORM me of what is happening in the FReak and FRag world. It is like the Twilight Zone but for SCARY people. You fit in real well Scary Teri.

And it seems that Scary is extremely proud of the fact that she is self-reporting her own stats about how abusive widdle ol' women folk truly are. Scary news flash..... you are a woman too. Well you APPEAR to be a woman. After looking at that nasty foot shot in the DC fountain, one has to truly wonder :-)

On to the screen shot (Thanks A). I have even made it super convenient so you can simply close out the picture and keep this open for commenting.



RICH!!! Biscuit Queen and Birth Control

I have only one thing to say before posting the picture and text below.

Biscuit Queen - how about the fact that the WOMAN gets pregnant, the WOMAN'S body changes over the course of 9 months (give or take), the WOMAN is the one risking HER life to give birth to the child. HOW ABOUT THEM APPLES? I AM SO EXTREMELY DISGUSTED THAT THIS CLAPTRAP IS COMING FROM A WOMAN. OBVIOUSLY YOU HAVE NEVER GIVEN BIRTH OR YOU MUST REALLY THINK MEN ARE SUPERIOR.

It is not the man who will undergo changes during the 9 months of pregnancy and the lifetime afterward (her physical changes - not the fact she is now a mother). Pregnancy and childbirth change a woman and is hard on HER body.

YES!!! HER BODY, not HIS.

Why is everything the responsibility of the woman? Why should she have to worry whether he has birth control or not. By the very act of consenting to have sex with anyone you are saying you know pregnancy can result. If you don;t want that don't do it.

Even if he did walk away, how is that any different than the mother putting the child up for adoption??

There needs to be a way for men to fairly have the right women already have, which is deciding not to become a parent between conception and birth. The "old keep your pants on" is not an answer, nor is the "use birth control"; if these are not good reasons to stop abortion or adoption by women, it should not be used to shame men. I am so tired of these double standards.




November 19, 2010

Quentin0352 complaining again about alleged stalking

I wonder what he calls it when he comes to my site and others (and his little MRA butt buddies do the same) to see what we are saying? I report vulgarities, they come to see if they are being featured and then complain when they are not? Or they complain because we refuse to allow them to derail a conversation about one thing and turn it into a discussion about how men are victims? Oh and lets not forget that they practice deception as well by creating new accounts when they are banned due to improper behavior?

Oh and shall I add that he is not being censored at the RHReality article. However with that said, his comments are being rated. TROLL ALERT!!!



Screen shot here:



More from Biscuit Queen (telling a man to be deceitful)



Oh lets go sweetie, we are going to yank some of your hair out but be sure not to tell mommy about this. Or even better, I am going to play doctor and stick this little cotton swab in your cheek and rub it around. Again do not tell your mommy.

And what does daddy dearest do when or if child tell mommy? What then Biscuit Queen. Nice, real nice.

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