A recent article on a well known father's rights blog has this paragraph as a closing statement on a women who has killed her children:
So what these cases show, in addition to the extreme of maternal gatekeeping, is the frank dishonesty and misandry of those hostile to fathers' rights, who cloak themselves in the rhetoric of child protection. It's a classic red herring.
Shall I name all of the FATHERS who have killed not only their children but the ex-wives/girlfriends, wives/girlfriends, mothers, fathers, grandfathers, grandmothers, aunts, uncles, family friends, FAMILY COURT JUDGES, and even innocent bystanders? All because they could no longer be in CONTROL (which by the way is the biggest red flag for an abusive personality)? Should we start with Darren Mack? How about Bruce Pardo? I have even more for you just from this year in the USA - SEVENTY SIX (YES 76!!!!!) DADS WHO HAVE KILLED THE CHILDREN ALL BECAUSE THEY REFUSED TO ALLOW MOTHERS TO HAVE CUSTODY OF THE CHILDREN - OR SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY REFUSED TO GIVE UP THAT PRECIOUS COMMODITY
CONTROL!!!!!76 Killer Dads: Fathers who ended their children's lives in situations involving child custody, visitation, and/or child support (USA)
ALABAMA
Franklin County
Father: PAUL GONZALEZ
Victim(s): Andrea Gonzalez (5 years)
Date of Death: Reported missing in Nov. 1993. Body never recovered.
Custodial father eventually pleads guilty to manslaughter. Stepmother charged with child abuse.
Jefferson County
Father: CORY RICE
Victim(s): Janiya Nicole Hale (1 year)
Date of Death: July 2009
Father, a registered sex offender, is charged with murder. Daughter died during overnight visitation.
ARIZONA
Cococino County
Father: RYAN PETERS
Victim(s): Teigan Peters (aka Teigan Brown) (3 years)
Date of Death: June 2009
Daughter killed in murder-suicide during court-ordered visitation . Mother had applied for orders of protection.
Maricopa County
Father: ALLEN CHAMBERS
Victim(s): Mindi Chambers (17 years)
Date of Death: Assumed to have been murdered around the time she went missing in 1982.
Custodial father ALLEN CHAMBERS is now presumed to have murdered Mindi Chambers around the time she went missing. Daughter had reported sexual abuse to the authorities. Not reported as officially missing til 1995.
Father: JEFFREY DUCHANE
Victim(s): Trenay Duchane (12 years)
Date of Death: Nov. 2008
Custodial father and stepmother convicted of murder.
Father: RAUL MOLINA GONZALEZ
Victim(s): Anthony Gonzalez (11 years)
Date of Death: Summer 2005
Father convicted of murdering son during summer visitation.
Father: NUSHAWN CAMPBELL
Victim(s): Son (5 years)
Date of Death: June 2009
Father with sole custody stabs son to death in failed murder-suicide. Mother had been trying to regain custody.
CALIFORNIA
Contra Costa County
Father: ERHAN KAYIK
Victim(s): Volkan Kayik (16 years)
Date of Death: July 2007
Custodial father found guilty in 2009 of strangulation death of son.
El Dorado County
Father: DAVID ELIOTT
Victim(s): Chandler Nash-Eliott (11 years)
Date of Death: Dec. 2009
Father not charged in the "suicide" of son. Father had physical custody, parents had shared custody. Father had extensive history with CPS regarding neglect, abuse, lack of supervision, etc.
Los Angeles County
Father: DAVID HELMS
Victim(s): Lance Helms (2 1/2 years)
Date of Death: 1995
Custodial dad convicted in beating death of son. Father had obtained custody despite extensive history of violence, drug abuse.
Father: CAMERON BROWN
Victim(s): Lauren Sarene Key (4 years)
Date of Death: Nov. 2000
Father scheduled to go to trial for 3rd time for death of daughter. Daughter was allegedly pushed off cliff during visitation in order to avoid child support.
Orange County
Father: GIDEON WALTER OMONDI
Victim(s): Richie Omondi (4 years)
Date of Death: 2006
Father shared custody with the child's mother. Convicted of 1st degree murder in Jan. 2010. Drowned son to avoid child support.
San Bernadino County
Father: JESUS ROMAN FUENTES
Victim(s): Jesus Gabriel Fuentes (4 years)
Date of Death: Feb. 2010
Father crashes car, shoots to death son during visitation. Parents divorced. Father in critical condition from self-inflicted gun shot wound.
Father: STEPHEN CHARLES GARCIA
Victim(s): Wyatt Garcia (9 months)
Date of Death: Jan. 2010
Father kills son during court-ordered visitation. Murder-suicide. Parents never married. Mother had pleaded with 3 judges regarding father's violence, threats.
San Diego County
Father: DENNIS POTTS
Victim(s): Tori Vienneau (22 years), Dean Springtube (10 months)
Date of Death: July 2006
Father is convicted Sept. 2009 in the murders of his former girlfriend and son. Father didn't want to take paternity test, pay child support.
Ventura County
Father: JAMES MULVANEY
Victim(s): Jason Mulvaney (12 years), Jennifer Mulvaney (7 years)
Date of Death: Sept. 2009
Father stabs to death son and daughter in murder-suicide during overnight visitation. Parents had shared custody and were still involved in divorce, custody case.
COLORADO
Arapahoe County
Father: AARON THOMPSON
Victim(s): Aarone Thompson (7 years)
Date of Death: Reported missing in Nov. 2005. Body never recovered.
Father convicted in Sept. 2009 in daughter's murder. Father had custody, as he had abducted the children from mother in Michigan.
Jefferson County
Father: JOSEPH TRUJILLO
Victim(s): Adrian Trujillo (5 months)
Date of Death: Jan. 2010
Father charged in death of infant son. Father had physical custody while mother in military. Father alleged to have left baby alone while father went out drinking for 7 hours. Baby later found dead.
CONNECTICUT
New Haven County
Father: MORRIES D. HILL SR.
Victim(s): Morries Hill Jr. (5 months)
Date of Death: 2008
Father charged in connection with the death of son. Baby died from "severe physical abuse." Infant died in father's home during overnight visitation.
FLORIDA
Colllier County
Father: SAMUEL SEJOUR
Victim(s): Elijay Kye Aliazar (3 months)
Date of Death: Jan. 2009
Father had shared custody with infant's mother. Son died of blunt force trauma to the head during visitation. Father charged w. 2nd-degree murder.
Duval County
Father: JOSI M. HALL
Victim(s): Kyla Hall (1 year)
Date of Death: 2008
Father had sole custody, and had been cleared of previous abuse allegations. Daughter died of blunt force trauma at home.
Hillsborough County
Father: CHAUNCEY ROBINSON
Victim(s): Chavon Robinson (22 months)
Date of Death: Feb. 2008
Father convicted Dec. 2009 of murdering child during visitation.
Jackson County
Father: WESLEY JONATHAN WILLIAMS
Victim(s): Danielle Baker (mother), sons Ahmaad (4 years) and Amarion (1 year), and unrelated infant.
Date of Death: 2005
Father allegedly committed quadruple murder because he was angry about child support.
Lake County
Father: RICHARD L. ADAMS
Victim(s): Kayla McKean (6 years)
Date of Death: 1998
Custodial father beat daughter to death. Had been subject of multiple CPS investigations.
Orange County
Father: ROOSEVELT BRADLEY II
Victim(s): Roosevelt Bradley III (8 months)
Date of Death: Aug. 2009
Father arrested for murder of infant during visitation.
Osceola County
Father: MELVIN ORTIZ
Victim(s): Unnamed Son (5 years)
Date of Death: July 2009
Son beaten to death while visiting father, stepmother.
Palm Beach County
Father: TONY CAMACHO
Victim(s): Crystal Camacho (8 years), Nelson Camacho (10 years)
Date of Death: Dec. 2006
Father and mother were finalizing divorce. During Christmas visitation, father stabbed daughter, then killed her and brother Nelson Camacho (10 years) in arson murder-suicide. Mother had unsucessfully petitioned for protection.
Pasco County
Father: THOMAS LUDWIG
Victim(s): Diella Ludwig (2 months)
Date of Death: Dec. 2008
CPS granted father THOMAS LUDWIG custody of infant twins. Father charged with 1st-degree murder in Diella's death.
Volusia County
Father: MICHAEL REESE
Victim(s): Jeremiah Reese (14 years)
Date of Death: Sept. 2009
Jeremiah Reese died of "accidental overdose" at the home of his custodial father. Father had long history of abuse, neglect with CPS.
IDAHO
Ada County
Father: NICHOLAS BACON
Victim(s): Bekm Bacon (8 months)
Date of Death: Feb. 2010
Father shot to death son in murder-suicide. Parents going through divorce, but had joint custody. Infant killed during visitation with father.
Jerome County
Father: ROBERT ARAGON
Victim(s): Sage Aragon (11 years)
Date of Death: Dec. 2008
Custodial father acquitted of involuntary manslaughter in hypothermia death of daughter. Father had told to her to walk to mother's home during blizzard.
Twin Falls County
Father: JIM NICE JR.
Victim(s): Justin Nice (6 years), Spencer Nice (6 years), Raquel Anna Nice (2 years)
Date of Death: 2005
Father murdered children with rat poison during court-ordered visitation.
ILLINOIS
McClean County
Father: MICHAEL CONNELLY
Victim(s): Duncan Connelly (6 years) and Jack Connelly (4 years)
Date of Death: March 2009
Father killed sons in murder-suicide during court-ordered visitation. Mother had extensive involvment with the courts trying to prevent contact with father.
Will County
Father: CHIDI ESI
Victim(s): Nathan Esi (19 months)
Date of Death: Oct. 2009
Father accused of drowning son during visitation.
INDIANA
Green County
Father: RONALD A. BOHANNON
Victim(s): Travis Bohannon (14 months)
Date of Death: Aug. 2009
Father separated from wife. Son "accidently" shot during visitation. Father convicted of reckless homicide Jan. 2010.
Lake County
Father: CORDELL RICHARDSON
Victim(s): Eboni Richardson (19 months)
Date of Death: Aug. 2009
Father shot daughter during visitation. Didn't want child's mother to do moveaway.
Father: TERRY BETHEL (aka Terry Noel)
Victim(s): Josiah Shaw (13 months)
Date of Death: Jan. 2008
Father allegedly arranged to have visitation with son, then shot him to death to avoid child support.
KANSAS
Shawnee County
Father: JAMES KRAIG KAHLER
Victim(s): Karen Kahler (44 years), Emily Kahler (18 years), Lauren Kahler (16 years), Dorothy Wight (89 years)
Date of Death: Nov. 2009
Parents were in the process of divorcing, reportedly "sparring over children."
Sumner County
Father: UNNAMED FATHER
Victim(s): Caden Michael Reemes (4 years)
Date of Death: Aug. 2009
Child asphyxiated at the home of his custodial UNNAMED FATHER.
KENTUCKY
Anderson County
Father: TIMOTHY FRAZIER
Victim(s): Cole Frazier (21 months)
Date of Death: May 2009
Father obtained custody with police assistance through fraudulent EPO. Shot son to death in murder-suicide. Mother suing police, city.
Clark County
Father: PATRICK WATKINS
Victim(s): Michaela Watkins (10 years)
Date of Death: 2007
Custodial father, stepmother found guilty of murder in girl's death. Girl removed from mother's home by social workers.
LOUISIANA
Pointe Coupee Parish
Father: AARON BOWMAN
Victim(s): Aaron Bowman, Jr.
Date of Death: Nov. 2009
Father had "temporary" custody of son, 2-year-old daughter when son beaten to death. Father charged with 1st-degree murder.
MAINE
Kennebec County
Father: SHANE SOUCY
Victim(s): Connor Soucy (4 months)
Date of Death: Aug. 2009
Infant became "unresponsive" during visit with father. Later died at hospital.
MARYLAND
Baltimore County
Father: MARK CASTILLO
Victim(s): Anthony Castillo (6 years), Austin Castillo (4 years), Athena Castillo (2 years)
Date of Death: Mar. 2008
Mother had tried to stop father from having access, but blocked by courts. Children murdered during court-ordered visitation.
Father: STEPHEN NELSON
Victim(s) Turner Jordan Nelson (3 years)
Date of Death: Feb. 2008
Murdered by father by being thrown off bridge. Father and mother had argued in court over custody.
MASSACHUSETTS
Bristol County
Father: KRISTOPHER GRIFFIN
Victim(s): Kaitlyn (6 years)
Date of Death: July 2009
Father allegedly murdered daughter because he was concerned about possible moveaway.
Worcester County
Father: LESLIE G. SHULER
Victim(s): Nathaniel Turner (7 years)
Date of Death: June 2009
Father charged with beating death of son. Took place during father's summer visitation.
MICHIGAN
Oakland County
Father: JOHN KELLY
Victim(s): unnamed infant (13 weeks)
Date of Death: Feb. 2010
Infant died during unsupervised visitation.
St. Clair County
Father: JOE GALVAN
Victim(s): Prhaze Galvan (3 years)
Date of Death: Jan. 2010
Child died of blunt force trauma in home of father, stepmother. Both face murder charges.
MISSOURI
Cass/Jackson Counties
Father: MARK GUENTHER
Victim(s): Elizabeth Guenther (18 months)
Date of Death: Feb. 2010
Father to be charged with 2nd degree murder. Baby suffered fatal skull fracture during father's weekend visitation.
Father: DAN PORTER
Victim(s): Sam Porter (7 years), Lindsey Porter (8 years)
Date of Death: June 2004
Father murdered children during court-ordered visitation. Had extensive history of domestic violence.
St. Louis County
Father: Nathaniel Robinson
Victim(s): Desmon Valenzuela (3 years)
Date of Death: 2007
Father obtained custody 1 month before child's beating death. Convicted of involuntary manslaughter in Jan 2010.
NEVADA
Clark County
Father: BRANDON TODD ARDUINO
Victim(s): Brandon Christopher Arduino-Boggs (13 years)
Date of Death: Sept. 2009
Son killed in auto homicide case where father DUI. Parents had been in lengthy child custody case.
Father: ALEX KOPYSTENSKI
Victim(s): Giovani Kopystenski (5 years)
Date of Death: July 2009
Custodial father. Autistic son "accidentally" shoots himself in head after finding gun in father's car.
NEW JERSEY
Passaic County
Father: EDELMIRO GONZALEZ
Victim(s): Adrian Gonzalez (7 years)
Date of Death: Nov. 2009
Father in "bitter custody dispute" with "estranged" wife. 7-year-old son shot to death, 11-year-old son, wife, in critical condition.
NEW MEXICO
Bernalillo County
Father: RICHARD ROBERT SANCHEZ
Victim(s): Richard Jr, Daniel, and Christopher Sanchez
Date of Death: Aug. 2001
Father "went missing" with sons during custodial visit. Bodies recovered, identified in July 2009.
NEW YORK
Erie County
Father: JAMES E. KENT
Victim(s); Joshua Kent (3 years)
Date of Death: Mar. 2005
Sole custody father beats son to death.
Genessee County
Father: UNNAMED FATHER
Victim(s); Marcus Peters (6 years)
Date of Death: Oct. 2009
Child dies during weekend visitation with father, but authorities say death not "suspicious."
Monroe County
Father: MARK RESCH
Victim(s): Hunter Resch (7 years)
Date of Death: Feb. 2010
Child shot to death in murder-suicide during court-ordered visitation. Father had history of DV, mother had filed two orders of protection.
Orange County
Father: CHRISTOPHER RHODES
Victim(s): Jerica Rhodes (7 years)
Date of Death: Jan. 2005
Sole custody father convicted in daughter's stabbing death. Had extensive history of DV.
NORTH CAROLINA
Edgecombe County
Father: BRICE MCMILLAN
Victim(s): Tyler Brice (13 years)
Date of Death: June 2008
Custodial father, stepmother convicted of 2nd-degree murder. Boy tied to tree, died of dehydration, heat exhaustion.
OKLAHOMA
Bryan County
Father: WOLF ABEL
Victim(s): Cheyenne Wolf (11 years)
Date of Death: April 2008
Custodial father, stepmother charged in girl's death.
OHIO
Cuyahoga County
Father: ANTHONY JOHNSON
Victim(s) Anthony Johnson Jr.
Date of Death: Aug. 2009
Father accused of beating child to death during visitation.
Franklin/Delaware Counties
Father: DANIEL J. DOBSON
Victims: Nicole Dobson (15 years), Sarah Dobson (11 years)
Date of Death: Dec. 2009
Father had physical placement of 15-year-old daughter. "Shared parenting" plan in place with divorced mother. Girls shot to death in murder-suicide.
Stark County
Father: JAMES MAMMONE III
Victim(s): Macy Mammone (5 years), James Mammone (3 years), Margaret Eakin (57 years)
Date of Death: June 2009
Divorced father convicted of stabbing children, beating to death former mother-in-law in Jan. 2010.
OREGON
Clackamas County
Father: DONALD L. COCKRELL
Victim(s) Alexis Pounder (3 years)
Date of Death: Jan. 2010
Father, mother had shared custody. Father, girlfriend charged with beating, starving girl to death. Mother allegedly blocked from seeing child by father.
PENNSYLVANIA
Philadelphia County
Father: DOMINGO "ANIBAL" FERREIRA
Victim(s) Charlenni Ferreira (10 years)
Date of Death: Oct. 2009
Girl died from abuse in the home of her custodial father, stepmother. Father later (allegedly) committed suicide in jail cell.
SOUTH CAROLINA
Anderson County
Father: JAMES T. DICKERSON
Victim(s): Jeremy Dickerson (7 years)
Date of Death: July 2009
Father with "full custody" charged in son's beating death.
Chester County
Father: UNNAMED FATHER
Victim(s): Xymerra Evans (11 months)
Date of Death: Sept. 2009
Child sexually abused, beaten during visitation with father. Later died at hospital.
TENNESSEE
Shelby County
Father: CURTIS LEE MORRIS, JR.
Victim(s): Isaiah Snipes (16 months)
Date of Death: Nov. 2009
Father had just obtained custody of son, 3-year-old daughter in Sept. 2009. Father charged w. 2nd-degree murder.
Warren County
Father: MITCHELL STONE
Victim(s): Kayndace (3 years), Akeelia (1 year)
Date of Death: May 2009
Custodial father, stepmother charged in deaths of two girls.
TEXAS
Denton County
Father: DUKE WATROUS
Victim(s): Ashley Watrous (10 years)
Date of Death: Dec. 2009
Custodial father charged in shooting death.
Gaines/Yoakum Counties
Father: MARIO ROMERO
Victim(s): Mitchell Romero (3 years), unnamed mother
Date of Death: Oct. - Nov. 2009
Mother reportedly murdered by father during child abduction. Son later killed in car accident.
Jasper County
Father: LEO DESMOREAUX IV
Victim(s): Triston Dobbins (21 months)
Date of Death: Dec. 2007
Boy died of head injuries while visiting father, stepmother. Father on trial for capital murder Jan. 2010.
VIRGINIA
Norfolk County
Father: JOSHUA SAWYER
Victim(s): Carly Sawyer (5 years)
Date of Death: June 2009
Custodial father, stepmother charged with 2nd-degree murder. Mother lost custody during divorce, father denied mother contact.
WEST VIRGINIA
Mercer County
Father: RONALD HOLCOMB
Victim(s): Brooklyn Holcomb (5 years)
Date of Death: Jan. 2007
Custodial father convicted of 2nd-degree murder in daughter's death. Mother had lost custody the year before after applying for child support.
Or why do we not just read the letter from Stephen Garcia - killer of little Wyatt? His mother's request for an RO was denied - just like these pigs want with all women (so men can keep CONTROL) and Garcia killed this precious child. He HAD parenting time with the child. It was not good enough for him - just as it is with thousands and thousands of other men (I will not call them fathers, because a father would NOT kill their own child). Read Garcia's last letter below:
To whom it may concern:
If I am Unable to post this on my website, MAKE SURE THIS IS MADE PUBLIC SO EVERYONE CAN READ THIS. RESPECT THIS REQUEST PLEASE. Do NOT chop this up. Make sure everyone can read it in its entirety. There are a lot of messages here everyone needs to read.
“SO THIS IS GOODBYE”
Everyone kept saying give it time. Keep going to court, keep doing what your doing. No body got it. Not even Katie. I didn’t want to fight Katie. I didn’t want shared custody of Wyatt. I wanted my family back. What good is having Wyatt full time, or 50/50 without Katie. I would of had to live with my parents forever, be alone, have Wyatt go back and forth for years to the guy Katie cheated on me with. I would of never been happy. Our son would of never been happy and a major reason, I would of not had my True Love. I did not want to keep fighting her, but I did not want to just give up and give her Wyatt. I did not want Wyatt to have that life. Understand and respect that.
I am so sorry. I led everyone on my side of the family to believe I wouldn’t of done this because I did not want them to know. That whole time we had been going to court and fighting each other was just a delay. I wrote Katie letter after letter, and I had told her everything. There was no point to keep fighting with her if she was not going to choose us. I had been thinking about doing this for months. At first I played with the idea of suicide to force Katie to move back, but that still did not work. Then when I started to find out what she was doing all those months, it was clear this was going to most likely happen. She just wouldn’t come back. Do not blame her, she wanted that life. Our deaths are a lot for her. It will have to suffice as her punishment. But that is not the reason I did it. It was the only way we could be happy without Katie. I did this out of love for our son, to protect him and myself. I am sorry.
We love everyone and we will miss you. We are watching, so live a good life. Do not dwell on what I did, its something you could not fix. Only me and Katie could of fixed it but, if your reading this, she chose not too.
I understand my actions will have devastated a lot of lives but, I could not continue to live the rest of my life in constant pain and watch our sons life be thrown away for lust. You all have a family, I lost mine. Live out your lives happy and hold on to your family, it’s the most important thing in life.
MOMMY AND DADDY:
I love you mom and dad, please find it in your heart to forgive me. Get rid of all my things and live the rest of your lives happy. Stop fighting. You were ok parents, you were there for me, you took care of me, but its not what I needed. I needed a family of my own. My computer is unlocked, on it you will find all my pictures and movies. Also on it is this everything Katie did to me, if the cops are wondering why I did it or if they need the computer for any reason. My digital movie player will be in the white truck, on it is a copy of the pictures and movies from my computer. I wanted to look one last time at what I once had. Sell all my things or give them to Sean. Do not sell the guns though, give those to him. He and the boys can go hunting some day or teach them to shoot. The rest you should just sell or keep for yourselves. Make sure Sean gets those guns, knives, snowboarding gear too and maybe even the 50cc bike, unless you want to just sell it. Do not keep my car or give it away. It requires a lot of know how and tuning. Just sell it. Ask Chris for info on it, he knows what’s in it. You should be able to get at least 4 - 6k for it. Simba says hi.
SEAN, BROTHER,
I haven’t seen you in forever, I wish we had more time. I wish you could of seen us, and I’m sorry. It’s just too much for my heart and mind to take, I can’t wait any longer. We love you. You have a great family, hold on to that. You really do not know what you have until its gone. Raise your son better than what we had growing up. Raise him with a whole family. Love him everyday and be there for him everyday. You have no idea what a blessing it is to be able to hold him everyday. I’m Sorry Brother, I Love You. We are watching over you. Do not let yourself be torn apart by what I have done, your family needs you to stay strong.
KELLIE:
Thanks for talking to me and for writing me. Thanks for your messages and motivation. I am sorry but it was not enough. I needed my family back. Work out any problems you and my brother run into. We are f------ watching you guys, YOU RAISE THAT BOY WELL AND DO IT TOGETHER, this is one of my wishes. Respect it. If you hit a wall, F--------- BREAK IT DOWN. Seek outside help, do not let your ego’s get in the way like me and Katie did. Seek outside help if you must and STAY TOGETHER. A WHOLE LOVING FAMILY IS IMPORTANT. NOAH needs both of you everyday. LOVE HIM SEAN. Kellie, NEVER do to my bro what Katie did to me. I will turn in my f--------- grave. I will find a way to kill you if you do…. Sorry, I love you.
To the rest of my family:
I’m not going to single anyone out. There is too much family to list. You all are great in more than one way. You have all been so loving and helpful in my life. I’m sorry, I know this will be hard. I was not being selfish, I tried but Katie would not have it. Everyone has a family of there own but me. Just be with your family and be happy for what you have. We love all of you, I’m sorry I hurt you like this. Please pray for Wyatt. He gets a easy life. He gets to be safe in heaven. Be happy for him. We will watch over you, pray for us both.
Chris + Ashlie, Tyler + Austin:
We love you guys. Thanks for being our friend. Please be happy together forever. You have a beautiful family, hold on to that for life. You guys are blessed with so many things. I’m sorry for any trouble I caused in the past. Do not be upset or sad or mad at yourself. You were my friends but do not think you could of talked me out of this. Live out your days together and work past any problems you have. Family is the most important thing in life, HOLD ON TO IT. Be happy for us, we can’t be happy without Katie. This way me and Wyatt can be happy too, respect that please. I am sorry for my deception. I know your going to be disgusted by what I have done. I’m sorry but my heart and mind cannot take it anymore. I will not sit by and watch my sons life be torn apart for lust. Please let everyone else know we love them and miss them too.
TO KATIE’S FAMILY, FRIENDS...
I WILL SEE YOU IN F-------- HELL. I HELD THE GUN, YOU PULLED THE TRIGGER. I CRIED FOR YOUR HELP. I TOLD YOU THIS WOULD HAPPEN. I TOLD YOU TO HELP ME GET MY FAMILY BACK BUT YOU LAUGHED AT ME. YOU HATE ME? OK WELL TELL ME WHEN YOU JOIN ME IN HELL. YOU HELPED CAUSE THE DEATH OF WYATT. THE BLOOD IS ON YOUR HANDS. I DID THIS OUT OF LOVE AND TO PROTECT MYSELF AND MY SON, BUT FOR YOU GUYS, IT IS YOUR PUNISHMENT. IT IS HATE. I F--------- HOPE IT EATS AT YOU FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES FOR DOING THIS TO ME AND WYATT. F----- YOU ALL.
Shawn + Jessie, Fish and Thunder:
Thanks for being friends with me when you were here. I know I was a weird guy but thanks for chillin with me from time to time. I had fun with the both of you. Thanks for giving me many many happy memories. I am Sorry I betrayed you like this Shawn, I know you will never agree with it. Your logic is damn strong brother, but my heart and mind were NOT. Same with you guys, stick out any trouble in life. Over come and stick together. Take care of each other forever. Love each other everyday. In time if you have a kid, dear god please stay together and work out anything and give him, her or them a great life. Maybe you can have a Wyatt. That’s up to you and Katie. You have my blessing though. Just love them or love each other. Again, You do not know what you have until its gone… When it is gone, you may never get it back. Don’t take that path. Go through the tree’s, make trails. It’s always better. We love you both. We will watch over you too.
Dakota:
I’m so sorry I wasn’t more nice too you. I know I could of played with you more and helped you out more than I did. I’m sorry for that, I did not know how to act at the time. It wasn’t till after you were already gone that I realized what a sweet kid you are. It took major changes in my life to understand how to truly love. I spent 2 ? years of my life around you, even though you got under my skin because I had patience problems, I love you. Wyatt loves you too. I’m sorry you could not grow up with your brother. I know you would of liked that. Me and Wyatt will watch over you Koda. We will always come to be by your side. Just kneel down, pray and we will come to grant you strength in your life ahead. Please forgive me, but your brother is safe now. Understand Dakota, he is in a better place but will always be in your dreams.
**Katie, K80, Babe, My love, my god d--- true love, mommy, ma ma:**
We love you, We are watching over you, We will be by your side, Just ask and we will come. Wyatt is safe now, be happy for him, please.
You already have all your letters. You already know what I have told you. They are posted on the website, you can read them there for the next few years. Also all my text messages are there. You have the CD I gave you with all our pictures of me, you, Wyatt, and Dakota. I am so sorry babe, I love you K80. I told you I needed you but you didn’t listen. I am sorry it took this to prove it. WHY COULDN’T YOU JUST LISTEN TO ME! I know from the deepest part of my soul I could of and would of made you happy for the rest of your life. I will give Rylee Sky Garcia your love. If you have a daughter some day, do not give her that name. It will be disrespectful. She is up here with us. There are new movies of me and Wyatt of our last days on the video camera in the white truck. Also your phone is in the white truck, I needed it to help motivate me to do what is right. Your pix are still on it. A few things of Wyatt from the hospital when he was born, your hair clippings and a Bible will be there also. On the first page of the Bible is a short msg. Keep it, read it, use it, it will keep you strong and going for Dakota. You still have a family to live for. I did not. Also in the truck is your ring. I was going to have Wyatt wear it before we went, but I did not want it to get lost. If you do not want it, bury it with me or Wyatt. Also there is a hand written letter signed by me, in the white truck. It says how I did it and why. That should be it. Make sure you request those items back babe! It is my wish that Katie gets these items back. Please RESPECT THIS REQUEST. Again, we love you Katie. Get on your knees and pray and we will come be by your side whenever you need us. We will always be here watching over you.
Please forgive me for what I have done. I tried to tell you over and over again but you wouldn’t listen!
I’m sorry for not telling you I loved you every day. I’m sorry for not appreciating you more. I’m sorry for not telling you how beautiful you are every day. I’m sorry for cheating on you. I’m sorry for hurting you.
I’m sorry for ** PUNCHING** you. I’m sorry I made the wrong choices. I’m sorry I didn't fight for you. I’m sorry I let you walk out. I’m sorry I didn't listen to you. I’m sorry I didn't support you when you needed it. I’m *NO LONGER* sorry for everything I did to your family. I’m *NO LONGER* sorry for everything I did to your friends. I’m sorry I said bad things about you when I got angry. Most of all I am sorry for not being sorry sooner.
ALSO:
I am sorry I pushed you away so hard you turned into a monster and did something you swore you never would. We are 50/50 on the blame though. You could have told me sooner.
And I am sorry for doing this. I just could not continue to cry everyday. EVERYDAY. I could not take medication to keep me blank and watch our beautiful sons life being torn apart. I could not take my chest hurting non stop almost, for the past 5 months. That is truth. I wanted you back so bad, so long ago, but didn’t know how to tell you the right way. Now….
“its too late”
There are so many things I wish I could of done before I died. There are so many places I wanted to go, so many things I wanted to do. So many things I wanted to do as a father. So many places I wanted to take Katie and Wyatt and even Dakota, so many things I wanted to do with them. I wanted at least one more kid. I wanted a family of my own so bad. I wanted to hold Katie one last time. I wanted to hug her, kiss her and look her in the eyes and tell her how much I loved and needed her, one last time. I wish we could have had Wyatt’s first birthday together. I wish we could have had Wyatt’s first birthday. But none of that was possible without Katie.
I want to be buried with our son or next to our son. DO NOT take this away from me. I love him with all my heart. I love him so much I went the distance to protect him for the disgusting life Katie tried to give him. I want to be next to him FOREVER. Please, its my wish as his father. Pay whatever it costs. I would like to be somewhere near the ocean, PLEASE. I love the mountains and green forests with lakes. It is beautiful and peaceful there but despite what I have told people before, my heart has always been with the SEA. Pick a nice green place, up north if you have to, next to the ocean and lay us to rest. Sell my car, my items, whatever it takes but please give me this wish as a father to be with my son in that beautiful place.
If anyone has a son, you have my blessing to name him Wyatt. It will not be frowned upon or show lack of respect. Just make sure you keep him close, love him everyday and raise him in a WHOLE, loving family. Those are the conditions. Again everyone respect this wish.
I’m sorry. We love all of you. Be with your family. Live out your lives, be happy. Do not dwell on what I have done. Move on with your lives and cherish every minute of it. HOLD AND LOVE YOUR FAMILY! PLEASE ITS MY FINAL WISH.
Please respect all my wishes and everything I have asked for in this letter.
We love all of you, We miss all of you, We are watching over all of you.
Sincerely,
your broken hearted son, brother, friend, boyfriend,
Stephen Charles Garcia 12/21/1984 - 01/31/2010
& OUR son, our precious and beautiful baby boy with a heart of gold:
Wyatt James Arthur Garcia 04/04/2009 - 01/31/2010
He rips into "HIS" Katie - last I looked numbnuts she was a person - not someone to be OWNED. But damn I forgot all of you control freak asshat abusers like to do is control. She found someone who was not a CONTROL FREAK ASSHAT ABUSER like all the other father's rights men and women. That much is apparent. The old "If I can't have you - nobody will". Yeah - we victims live with that everyday in some form or another. Whether it comes from you disfiguring us so bad no other man woulld ever want to look at us, or if it comes in the form of false abuse allegations, or in the form of you taking our child away from us forever, or in any of the many ways you asshat abusers use to further victimize us. One things is plain and simple fact - YOU ARE ALL ASSHAT ABUSERS!!!!
I would tear Garcia to shreds but what would that accomplish? He is dead already so not like it would hurt him. So lets stop these others out there who want to put children in harms way. Lets keep the law in the best interest of the children, protect the true victims of dv (WOMEN AND CHILDREN) and men - you want shelters - BUILD THEM like we did. You want laws to protect you - you already have them. In fact you have been protected for over 200 years (most of you have anyway). Women and children are still not protected.
Challenge to the alleged control freak who wants to give parents like Bruce, Darren, and Stephen control, care and custody of children. Find 76 stories of women killing the children, and many others due to custody and child support court issues. Find me 76 of these who have either committed these crimes or been sentenced to the crimes of killing the child(ren) since the beginning of 2010. Can't find 76. Okay next challenge... Find the volume of cases as presented on Dastardly Dads of the killer men (men killing everyone from their own flesh and blood to innocent bystanders). At last count there were 2,307 stories stemming from June 24, 2009. Granted there are some additional, updated coverage posts - so I will give you 200 for those updated posts - hell I would even go as far as giving 307 - make it an even 2,000 stories of moms killing the children from June 24, 2009 to current date.
YOU ASSHATS CANNOT DO IT BECAUSE THERE ARE NOT THAT MANY MOMS OUT THERE KILLING THE CHILDREN. BECAUSE YOUR CLAIMS ARE FALSE AND YOU IN FACT ARE PRESENTING THE RED HERRING. ASSHATS....
